Yea, Sometimes you can be wasting your time pining for girls who don’t love you all that much, who are just there for one reason or the other, while missing out on girls who truely wish to have you. It’s awful to have to confront the idea that the girl of your dreams may not actually be that into you. It’s better to know the truth about where you stand.
In this article I will reveal to you 8 signs that shows she is not into you, that she is just wasting your time.. Check out below:
1. She Flakes On Plans Constantly:
However, if the girl you take as your lover or girlfriend is constantly flaking on you (always come up with excuses when you wish to hang out with her, even when you have informed her earlier) especially last minute this is a strong sign that she’s not prioritizing you as much as you are her.
If she’s coming up with far-fetched excuses or is constantly “working late” or “sick”, then she is probably just not that into you.
If you really think she might still like you and is genuinely just sick or busy, then leave the next plan up to her. If she never initiates another get together, that’s a glaring signal that things are not as you hoped, and she doesn’t see you as a potential boyfriend or lover.
2. She Keeps Referring You as ordinary Friends:
If she’s constantly stressing that it’s so nice “having you as a friend” or alway introduce you as “my friend” to her friends, then she’s trying to tell you that you are not her boyfriend.
It doesn’t mean she doesn’t value your friendship or like you as a person, it just means that she sees you as normal friend like other guys around her , and things don’t look to be becoming romantic any time soon.
3. She never texts you first:
When you’re always the one texting and calling first and she never attempted to be the first to text or call you, it’s a clear sign something is off and you may be wasting your time on her. If you’re making 75% effort and she’s only making 25%, it’s unfair to you and you’re being played.
4. She texts or calls only when she needs a favour from you:
Sometimes girls “use” guys for favors and then disappear when they don’t need anymore favour from him. You may see it as being a cool and nice guy by helping her out, but you also have to be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” is becoming too much and you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!” lols run for your dear life.
5. She Hasn’t Introduced You To Anyone In Her World:
One of the first things you tend to do when you’re really excited about someone and see things becoming serious is introduce them to your friends and family to make sure they’re a good fit. If you’ve been “dating” (at least, in your eyes) for weeks or months, but she’s not making attempt of letting you meet anyone in her world, that’s a clear sign she’s not interested on having you as her partner.
If she’s reluctant to meet your friends and family, that’s another bad sign, too. If your worlds aren’t meshing at all, and she’s the one preventing it, then it’s probably time to
look for a more committed partner elsewhere.
6. She never wants to come to your place yet you’ve known each other for a while.
Meeting in public is kinda fine if it’s the first date – most women prefer to meet in a public place at first just to make sure you’re not creepy or dangerous. But if she continuously insists on hanging out in public places, it’s a bad sign. She doesn’t want to get intimate with you.
7. She Avoids Physical Contact:
One of the key signals that someone is feeling you in a romantic sense is constant touching: resting your hands on each other’s legs, touching pinkies while you’re sitting side by side or even playfully hitting one another. Conversely, if she’s doing none of this, and her body language is stiff and unapproachable, then she’s showing you that she’s not interested in you in that way.
It’s definitely better not to force physical contact or lay it on heavy when it’s not welcome, so if she’s not forthcoming with touch, then let her be and respect her wishes.